The Gospel Rules for Friendship From John Piper’s Desiring God Leave Me Exhausted on The Wartburg Watch blog

A bunch of made up questions to let you know, definitively, if you are in a sinful friendship.

via The Gospel™ Rules for Friendship From John Piper’s Desiring God Leave Me Exhausted —

Calvinist Leader Dr.Iain Campbell Dies by Suicide Amidst Allegations of Affairs and an Out of Wedlock Child -The Wartburg Watch blog [Note: TWW should have called this ‘Undue Influence’ by a Predatory Pastor]

If a great theologian and pastor allegedly abuses the women in his congregation for decades, then what is wrong with his theology of obedience?

via Calvinist Leader Dr Iain Campbell Commits Suicide Amidst Allegations of Affairs and an Out of Wedlock Child. His Wife Gets Blamed! —

*Note:  While this is an important story that The Wartburg Watch covered, I disagree with their calling (late) Pastor Iain Cambell’s having sex with at least seven women church members “affairs”. (There may be more women besides these seven.) These women have not been able to tell their side of the story. This pastor may have exerted undue influence over these women such as in counseling meetings and may have used other coercive tactics.  We just don’t know the details. To tarnish these womens’ reputations when they may have been victimized is wrong. I decline to judge these Scottish women on so little information. To further ‘throw them under the bus’ in order to support Campbell’s widow Anne is also wrong.  Please keep that in mind when reading this Wartburg Watch article. Campbell seemed like a real predatory creep. His victims aren’t to blame for his wife’s anguish. He is. 

Here are some additional resources about pastoral ‘grooming’ of adults for sex.

Support group: Hope of Survivors http://www.thehopeofsurvivors.com/are_you_confused.php

https://healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.wordpress.com/2014/07/16/adults-are-also-groomed-for-sexual-abuse-i-was-by-a-church-pastor/

https://healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.wordpress.com/2013/08/07/is-a-pastor-spiritually-abusing-and-grooming-an-adult-any-different-to-a-child/

http://www.ourstoriesuntold.com/sex-pastor-affair-abuse/

 

Word of Faith Fellowship (Spindale, NC) Accused by Ex-Members of Being a Cult – Part 2 on The Wartburg Watch

How has WOFF been able to operate for all these years despite serious accusations of abuse?

via Word of Faith Fellowship (Spindale, NC) Accused by Ex-Members of Being a Cult – Part 2 —

Word of Faith Fellowship (Spindale, NC) Accused by Ex-Members of Being a Cult – Part 1 on The Wartburg Watch blog

At long last those who have been hurt by Word of Faith Fellowship are speaking out…

via Word of Faith Fellowship (Spindale, NC) Accused by Ex-Members of Being a Cult – Part 1 —

The New Movie: Is Genesis History? – The Wartburg Watch blog

The fatal flaw of the move Is Genesis History?

via The New Movie: Is Genesis History? Answer: It Depends on Who Is Doing the Interpreting —

What Should We Do About 9Marks and Other Abusive Churches? By Dale, guest post on The Wartburg Watch blog

Are 9Marks churches divisive? Dale says “YES!” and provides his “Top Ten List” of their “Dividic Kingdom”

via What Should We Do About 9Marks and Other Abusive Churches? Guest Post by Dale —

What Makes 9 Marks Churches So Unhealthy? By Dale on The Wartburg Watch blog

“Dever has a very high view of the skill set of a pastor, and a very low view of the abilities of the sheep.” – Dale

via What Makes 9Marks Churches So Unhealthy? – Guest Post by Dale —

Should Members Keep Giving Money to a Church That Refuses to Disclose the Pastor’s Salary – The Wartburg Watch blog

Don’t give money to churches that won’t disclose the salaries of their leaders.

via Should Members Keep Giving Money to a Church That Refuses to Disclose the Pastor’s Salary? —

How the Threat of God’s Wrath is Used to Silence Abuse Victims – on A Cry for Justice blog

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice: In following the story of Marie Notcheva over at Wartburg Watch, I read the following comment by a “friend” of Marie’s on Facebook. I decided to highlight this comment here in a post because THIS tactic of threatening God’s wrath for exposing evil in a church is really rather common.…

via How the Threat of God’s Wrath is Used to Silence Abuse Victims — Speakingtruthinlove’s Blog