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GBFSV SPIRITUAL ABUSE VICTIMS' RECOVERY

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Fall Activities…Smashing the Patriarchy – Kate Wallace Nunneley @ Junia Project

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on October 21, 2016Format ImageCategories Uncategorized

Tell Your Stories

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on October 1, 2016October 1, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Anne Lamott author, Authoritarianism, Bob Douglas, Boundaries, Cliff McManis, GBFSV Abuses, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, NeoCalvinism, Patriarchy, Recovery from Spiritual Abuse, Sam Kim, Spiritual Abuse, Tim Wong, Truth, Writing

When God Hates People That You Do

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on October 1, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Anne Lamott author, Authoritarianism, Bob Douglas, Cliff McManis, Excommunication and Shunnings, God in your image, GraceBibleFellowshipOfSiliconValley, Patriarchy, Sam Kim, Spiritual Abuse, Tim Wong

Having Healthy Boundaries

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 30, 2016September 30, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Bob Douglas, Boundaries, Cliff McManis, GBFSV Abuses, GBFSV Codependency, GBFSV Hate Speech, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, Healing, Sam Kim, Self-care, Shahida Arabi blogger, Tim Wong

When People Show You Who They Are

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 29, 2016September 29, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Abuse, Authoritarianism, Bob Douglas, Boundaries, Cliff McManis, Codepedency, Excommunication and Shunnings, GBFSV Hate Speech, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, Maya Angelou poet/writer, NeoCalvinism, Sam Kim, Spiritual Abuse, Tim Wong, Truth

Love not compliance

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 27, 2016September 27, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Authoriatarianism, Bob Douglas, Children, Cliff McManis, Excommunication and Shunnings, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, Healthy Boundaries, Love, Membership Covenants, NeoCalvinism, Patriarchy, Sam Kim, SpiritualAbuse, Tim Wong

Hey Christians: Practice What You Preach

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 26, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags 9Marks, Authoriatarianism, Bob Douglas, Cliff McManis, Excommunication and Shunnings, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, Love, Lying, Membership Covenants, NeoCalvinism, Patriarchy, Sam Kim, SheperdingMovement HeavyShepherding, SpiritualAbuse, Tim Wong

Love and wounds

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 26, 2016September 26, 2016Format ImageCategories Membership Covenants, Nouthetic Counseling, Patriarchy, Sam Kim, Spiritual Abuse, UncategorizedTags 9Marks, Authoriatarianism, Bob Douglas, Censorship, Cliff McManis, Excommunication and Shunnings, Grace Bible Fellowship of Silicon Valley, Love, NeoCalvinism, Patriarchy, Sam Kim, SheperdingMovement HeavyShepherding, SpiritualAbuse, Tim Wong, Wounds

Helping people we don’t agree with

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Author M. DeservebetterPosted on September 26, 2016Format ImageCategories UncategorizedTags Good Samaritan

Always Help Someone

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  • Cyber Law Clinic – Harvard Law School
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  • Diane Landberg -Christian Psychologist, Trauma
  • Digital Media Law Project – Harvard University
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  • E-Church on Wartburg Watch (Wade Burleson, Pastor) -from Enid, OK
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